Signals We Ignore
Still Running on Survival Settings
Some sensations ask for attention. Others demand it.
Decades of adaptation taught many of us to ignore the difference.
The body learned: push through. Don't stop. Survival came first.
Wind through bare branches. The trail doesn't wait.
Discomfort vs. Pain
Discomfort is information. Muscles stretching, nerves whispering, stress landing.
Pain is boundary. Risk, damage, cost.
Trauma-adapted systems blur the line. Muscles, joints, nerves, emotions all trained to whisper keep going long after it was safe.
Sometimes I notice a dull thrum in my shoulder or a sharp twinge in my wrist. The difference is subtle, but it tells me which signals are persistent and which fade with attention.
Pushing Through: What It Cost
Override became default.
Days turned into months. Months turned into years.
Discomfort got called resilience. Pain got called "weakness."
The body keeps a ledger. Inflammation, misalignment, flares, organ strain. All escalation when signals went ignored.
I remember a morning on the trail: cold fog, wet moss underfoot, heart racing. I thought it was just fatigue. Later, that twinge in my knee made its warning clear. The body had been speaking. I had been listening poorly.
Relearning the Difference
Discomfort: can I stay present while it unfolds?
Pain: what signals are demanding attention?
Observation, not perfection. Breath catching, a nerve flaring, tension along the spine. Information offered quietly, over time.
Sun through mist. Small shifts in how the body meets the world.
Survival Strategy
Endurance worked when it needed to. It kept me alive.
Now it's more about clarity than brute force. Listening before overriding. Responding before escalation. Preserving what remains.
Discomfort expands capacity. Pain demands negotiation.
Both deserve acknowledgment. Both shape how we move, inside and out.
Walking through wet grass, cool wind at your back. Sometimes the signal is just there. Just notice. Just feel.
Further Reading:
โ TraumaโIllness Connection: Your Body Isn't Broken, It's Adapted
โ Act Zero: Prologue
โ Back to Inner Trailcraft
*Peer reflection, not therapy advice. Your healing journey is uniquely yours.*
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